Hand-Me-Ups & A Massive Update

I finally came to terms with the fact that my newest little guy isn't a newborn anymore.  I know, I know...I've had eight wonderful months with him to get used to the idea...but those months flew by so quickly that I barely had time to notice!  Now, he's 8 months old, sits up on his own, eats pretty much anything I put in his mouth (and prefers table food to baby food, thank you very much!), and is trying to crawl!  Oh...and those cute newborn and 0-3 month size clothes...yeah, they don't fit anymore (and haven't for awhile now).  He can still fit into some 3-6 months (mostly onsies)...but that won't be for much longer, I know.  So...I finally broke down and decided to sort through the boxes & bags of Hand-Me-Ups that some precious friends gave us for him...and am now doing laundry...lots of it!  ;)

Some people call them Hand-Me-Downs...but a sweet friend, when I gave her some of Christopher's outgrown clothes for her boys a few years ago gave me the term "Hand-Me-Ups" and I loved it!  And in reality, that's exactly what they are...because some of these clothes carry some pretty expensive brand names!  Name brands I couldn't justify purchasing on our current budget (I didn't even realize some of the brands made kids clothes!).  And so, I'm thankful.  Not because I'm a brand-name kinda gal (I'm just as happy putting my child in something from Wal-Mart or Target as I am from the Gap or Gymboree, especially since they wear them for such a short period of time!)...but because they are quality clothes...most of which look brand new!  And since I don't have to spend money on clothes that he will outgrow all too soon, it opens up opportunities to do other things with my boys that I might not otherwise have been able to do.  And again, I'm thankful!  :)

OK, ok...you are probably thinking right about now that I promised you an update on my Valentine post and here I am posting again without so much as an update on the last five months of our lives!  No need to fear...an update is here!  LOL!  OK...reality check...I'm pretty sure most everyone who reads this blog is already a Facebook friend of mine or gets a Christmas letter from us, so you are probably pretty much up to date and don't really need or want me to rehash it all anyway.  If this is you, no worries...you can stop reading here and not miss anything (except maybe a few really cute pictures of the boys)!  :)

For the rest of you still reading (if there are any of you)...here's an update on our lives:

October

Lots of firsts for Jayden in October...he began holding his head up pretty regularly and really wanted to see all that was around him!  He also started eating baby food this month.  We started with veggies, moved on to fruits, and eventually meat (not sure when we introduced each food...except I know he had his first meat on Thanksgiving...turkey!).  ;)

 



Christopher was a month or so into his second year of Classical Conversations (CC).  He's the only boy in a group of girls...and we're ok with that (he seems to be ok with it for the most part, too)!  ;)  I am amazed at all he learns in his CC class!  Each week they do a presentation to the class of their choosing (in the picture below, Christopher is sharing his lapbook that he'd made of the memory work from the first six weeks) and a science project (below are the owl pellet dissection - not a favorite of my little germaphobe, but with some encouragement, he did participate - and observing the sections of crawfish).  The year is divided into four quarters, each six weeks in length.  Their Fine Arts section is divided by those quarters.  The first quarter is focused on art lessons, the second quarter is tin whistle lessons, the third quarter is art appreciation (focusing on the artists of the period we are studying in our memory work), and the last quarter is music appreciation.  These are things I probably would never (or even have the ability to) offer on my own...which makes me even more thankful for our CC community!

 





Another benefit of homeschooling is that when Daddy has a conference for his work (sometimes in the summer, sometimes in the fall), we get to go along!  This fall, Daddy's conference was in Orlando, FL...so we loaded up the van and headed toward the hotel!  Unfortunately, we hit a nail or something on the interstate, which caused a flat tire.  The good news is that my van has a warning feature when the tires lose pressure to let you know before it goes totally flat and causes a problem on the road.  Because of this, we were able to pull off at a rest area so Daddy could have plenty of room to change the tire...with a little help from his favorite assistant (and not worry about the danger of traffic)!  ;)  We ended up having to stop in Brandon and get a new tire since the spare isn't really intended for long-term use or interstate speeds.  We stopped at Costco, but they didn't have a tire to fit and they recommended Sears.  So, off to the Brandon Town Center we went.  While Daddy worked out all the details, the boys and I wandered around the mall and Daddy caught up with us for dinner in the food court while our tire was being replaced.  :)

 

While Daddy was in his conferences all day, the boys and I headed out for a "field trip" to Wonderworks.  Christopher, being the scientist that he is, had a BLAST!  He blew some giant bubbles, experienced what an earthquake would feel like (several times), walked on a giant keyboard, moved a ball with his mind, and many other wonderful things!  Jayden...well, he pretty much slept through it all!  ;)  Someday we'll go back and let him experience all the fun with his brother!

 

 

Jayden did get an adventure of his own while we were in Orlando, though!  He had his first ever swim in the pool...and unlike his brother at that age, he LOVED it!!  Now that Christopher has learned to love swimming, I see many fun summers in our future!  :)

 

 

 

Jayden also had his first Halloween...unfortunately, he was sick with a cold and couldn't go out.  :(  So, instead of dressing up, he dressed like Daddy and stayed home while big brother and I headed out! 

 

 

Our tradition every year is to stop at Grandma Jansen's house to trick-or-treat and then go to our church for their Halloween alternative.  Christopher dressed like a fireman this year.  Each year, we usually shop for the next year's costume after the holiday is over (when they are 50-70% off).  I just now realized we didn't do that for next year.  Guess I'm gonna have to make them something!  ;)

 

 

November

November was a very important month for our family!  It was the month where Jayden OFFICIALLY became a Jansen!  Of course, in our hearts, he had been a Jansen long before he was even born...but now, he was legally ours!  It was a crazy roller coaster ride.  We had gotten information from the attorney about the hearing in October (just before we went to Orlando) stating that we needed to return the paperwork she'd sent, along with $2,000.  Thinking this was a mistake, because all legal fees were included in Christopher's adoption and in a breakdown we had gotten from the agency, a chunk of what we'd paid was allocated for legal fees, we called the agency to confirm.  Turns out, the money we'd already paid for legal fees was to cover what the attorney had done for the agency...not her fees for the hearing.  It was a rough few weeks...but it all worked out in the end!  And on election day, November 6, 2012, Jayden officially became our son!

 

 Having seen pictures on a friend's facebook page, I knew there was a chalk art festival in Sarasota while we were up that way for the adoption hearing...so, after the hearing and lunch, we stopped by to view the 3D chalk art.  It had rained, so not all of them were as good as the one above...but some of them were amazing!

 

With my new-found love of sewing, I decided to make pillow pals for all the littles in my family.  The only girl, Hannah Kate, requested a "ballerina one"...and so, I learned to make a tutu...thanks to a Youtube video (and descriptions from friends and a lady that works at JoAnn's)!  Not only does the tutu fit the pillow pal, but HK can also untie the ribbon, take it off the pillow pal, and wear it herself (which she did as soon as I told her that was a possibility)!

 







 

Above are all the pillow pals I made...each one just a little bit different.  If the child had a favorite color, I used those colors...otherwise, I picked fabric to make it somewhat unique to that child.  The two on the ends are for my nephews...same colors, and yet, still different! 

At some point in November, my computer bit the dust.  There was some problem with the operating system...so, even though it powered on, it wasn't much use to me.  With Christmas just around the corner and an already tight budget, a new computer just wasn't gonna happen. So...I made do with my phone and iPad to check Facebook & emails, put in my Avon orders, and surf the web.  But, neither one would enable me to blog effectively...so, that is why I was absent for so long!  After David received his bonus in January, we were finally able to replace my computer...which is why I'm able to update this blog today!  ;)  The only thing is...all new computers come with Windows 8, which has quite a learning curve to it...but, I'm getting there!  ;)

December

 



In December, Jayden got to go with me to my Avon Christmas party...all decked out in his Tiny Tillia by Avon attire!  Even though he slept through most of it...he was the hit of the party!  Christopher got to enjoy a day with Daddy at the office...he loves doing that!

Another big event for Jayden was that on 12/12/12...he got his VERY FIRST TOOTH!  The second one came just two days later!  All that drooling had finally paid off!  And nothing like a couple of toofers to make you wanna eat something more than baby food!  When we went for his six-month check-up, his pediatrician told us that he could eat anything, as long as it wouldn't choke him & gave the example that he could eat peanut butter, but not peanuts (due to the choke factor).  Boy!  Things sure have changed from when Christopher was a baby!  Anyway...we started feeding him whatever we were eating in hopes of helping him avoid his big brother's picky eating tendencies!  Grandma Jansen gave us a Baby Bullet for Christmas...so now he can have pretty much whatever we do!  WOO HOO!
 

 



 

 

 

Another big event was that Jayden played Baby Jesus in a couple of the performances of The Living Christmas Tree at our church.  They do seven performances...so three babies shared the role so that no one baby would have to be there at every performance...though we were there anyway because Christopher sang with PraiseKids (children's choir) in the performance and David was helping with Resonate (youth choir)...so we attended every rehearsal and every performance!  But, we loved every single minute of it, too!

On the day after the last performance of The Living Christmas Tree, Jayden learned to sit up on his own!  He was the oldest of the babies to play baby Jesus and they were a little concerned that he might not like laying down like a baby, as many babies who have learned to sit up on their own are like that.  So, I wouldn't let him even practice sitting up on his own until after the performances were over (one of his performances was on the LAST DAY)! When I finally let him try to sit up on his own the next day, I was amazed!  Of course, there was some falling over (which is the reason for the pillows behind him)...but he's come a long way since then!  :)

 

 Part of our Christmas traditions include going to the Christmas Eve service at our church.  It's a candlelight service and all the adults, teens, and older kids get a candle as they enter.  Little kids get a star on a stick.  This was Christopher's first year getting a candle and Jayden's first Christmas Eve service...a first for both my boys!  :)  I love this service because we always sing Christmas carols together as a church family, then the Christmas story is presented from the Bible (this year it was read by some of the pastors and their families), and a message is given by our pastor.  At the end, candles are lit across the sanctuary and the overhead lights are dimmed...it's absolutely beautiful! 

 

Christmas morning was so much fun at our house!  This was the first year that Christopher got REALLY excited about it.  In the past, David and I have always gotten up before him on Christmas morning and had to wait for him to get up...sometimes even making lots of noise in the hopes of waking him up!  Thankfully, I had an inkling it was going to be different this year and we roped off the door that led out from his bedroom and bathroom to the rest of the house so he couldn't get out if he got up before us.  "Santa" left him a note letting him know not to bust through it until after Mom & Dad were up to let him out.  Of all the things he got, I think Christopher loved his Hexbugs the most!  Jayden seemed pretty interested in them, too!  I am so thankful that Christopher is the type of big brother that he is willing to let his little brother see his new toys (as much as it is safe for him, anyway).  I am so blessed by the relationship these two have already!

 

On New Years Eve, our tradition is to stay home and watch the ball drop as a family...then we have sparkling grape juice in fancy glasses to celebrate!  Both boys stayed up to see in the new year...and Jayden was very curious about what we were drinking...so Daddy gave him a sip, too!  Wanting to post the picture on Facebook, but not wanting to give the wrong impression, I also took a picture of Jayden with the bottle so everyone would know that it was just grape juice and nothing stronger!  ;)

 

January

 

 

In January, Christopher decided that he wanted to learn to sew.  He has watched me make things for him, his brother, and his cousins with my sewing machine and decided he'd like to give it a go.  He not only made, but also designed, a pillow toy for his brother as his first project!  He did very well...and I'm very proud of him!  At least I know who will get use out of my current sewing machine if I'm ever able to upgrade to one that embroiders!  In the meantime...I'll just have to share!  :)

 

On January 11th, several homeschoolers from our area took our annual field trip to LEGOLAND!  It's a great deal because the kids get in for about $5 and the adult tickets are around $25...much less than the normal ticket fees!  This was the second such trip for Christopher and me...but a first for Daddy and Jayden!  Christopher and Daddy had a blast on the rides while Jayden and I enjoyed the scenery!  We ALL enjoyed a lunch at the pizza and pasta buffet inside the park!  We are already looking forward to next year's trip!

 

 

February



As I mentioned in a previous post...DaRuMa's has a very special meaning to David and me on Valentine's Day (our first date)!  This year, we celebrated our 11th Valentine's Day together by taking Christopher with us to DaRuMa (Jayden had some Grandma Jansen time).  :)

Christopher loved watching the guy cook the food in front of us!  He wasn't the most entertaining of chefs we've had there...but Christopher, not knowing any different, enjoyed it all the same! 

Christopher especially loved the onion volcano (being that volcanos are his thing and all)!  He was amazed!  There's no doubt he enjoyed the whole experience...and is already asking when we are going back again!  Oh Boy!  I don't think it will be anytime soon (due to the cost factor)...but I know my favorite part of the whole dinner was watching him enjoy it all and his precious expressions!  I just love being this little boy's mommy!



 

 

OK...that was quite the update...but, at least now you know what we've been up to!  ;)  I packed a lot more pictures into this update than I usually do...and it was no easy task!  Internet Explorer kept refreshing itself and I kept losing pictures (especially if I tried to add more than two at a time)...so it took me a few days to complete the update as a result...but I needed the pictures to help me tell the story...so I persevered!  You're welcome!  LOL!  ;)  Hopefully, it won't be so long before the next blog post and I won't have so much updating to do!  =)

Happy Valentine's Day!

I know...it's been a long time since I blogged anything at all here...and I'll try to do an update later...but this day is special, so it gets it's very own blog!  ;)  Eleven years ago today, something big changed in my life.  They guy I had, up until that day, known only as a friend suddenly became so much more!  Even though I was sick and had stayed home from work that day, I was convinced (pushed) by my precious friend Robyn to join our singles group at DaRuMa (one of those Japanese restaurants where they cook in front of you) for our annual Valentine's Day dinner.  When I arrived, I was met by a very handsome man all dressed up and holding a single red rose (with our friends, who were all in on it, behind him)!  To say I was surprised would be a great understatement!

Earlier in the day, he had called many times trying to see me and I kept turning him down.  After all, I was sick, hadn't had a shower, and was not really in any mood to see anyone!  What I didn't know at the time was he had a bouquet of flowers with which he had tried to surprise me at work (only, I wasn't there)!  After dinner, we all went out for dessert...which is where he presented me with the flowers he had wanted to give me earlier.  :)

A month and a half later, on Easter weekend, this man would ask me to marry him at the fountain in our church's courtyard with many of those same friends cheering us on (along with many others as they filed out of the church service)!  In September of that year (on my maternal grandparents' anniversary), we would become husband and wife!  I indeed married my best friend!  <3 p="">
Since that day, we have made a life for ourselves as husband/wife to each other and mom/dad to two very precious little boys.  Not all of our days have been happy...but we've ridden this crazy roller coaster of life together and my sweet husband has loved me unconditionally through it all!  I am indeed very blessed to be his wife!  He listens to all my crazy ideas and angry rants...and loves me anyway!  He tells me every single day (usually multiple times during the day) that I'm beautiful, even though he knows that's the hardest compliment for me to accept.  He shows me he loves me with his actions.  He helps out around the house...doing the laundry, a lot of the cooking, and so much more!  He is the best daddy in the whole world...spending quality time with each of our sons...and even changing diapers (unless they are too messy - LOL!)!  ;)  He sends me random texts to tell me he loves me...especially when he knows I'm having a particularly hard day.  He loves me just the way I am and would continue loving me even if I never changed at all (which is very hard for me to wrap my brain around!)!  He cheers me on and supports me in everything I do!  He encourages and does everything he can to help me when I'm trying to make changes to better myself.  He is a gentleman through and through...and he's teaching that to our sons by example!

The picture above is a gift our oldest son put together for me for Valentine's Day.  Christopher had prepared this all on his own without any prompting from anyone, but he had shared with his dad that he had something special for me, even though he didn't share what it was (he just kept asking David when Valentine's Day was and saying he had something special for me).  Christopher woke up early this morning to present his gift to me.  He had chosen a Fun Dip valentine from the box we'd bought after the holiday last year for him (it's one of his favorites) and a $100 bookmark he had in his room.  Then, he wrote "I love you!" (using a purple marker - one of my two favorite colors) on an index card and made it into a paper airplane (his latest skill)!  This gift meant more to me than anything he could have purchased at a store because I know it came straight from his heart!  I know, without a doubt, that this idea came to him because his whole life, he has watched his Daddy make every day special for his Mommy...and always making Valentine's Day a little extra special!  :)

David and I count that dinner on Valentine's Day at DaRuMa as our first date, since we had been friends long before that and had done many things together with our group of friends. We didn't have any "alone dates" (just the two of us) until after we were engaged...and even then, it was always in a public place.  We made a point never to be completely alone while we were dating so that there could never be any reason for anyone to believe our love was anything but pure.  In fact, David was such a gentleman that he would end each date together by kissing my hand.  Only when I accepted his marriage proposal did he first kiss me on the lips (and he had even asked my permission to do so!)!  I'm so thankful for the way God brought us together and the way David courted me.  I am such a blessed woman...blessed beyond anything I could have ever imagined possible!

 

Ten Years Ago Today...

Ten years ago today, I married my best friend!  I made a promise to love him forever...little did I know ten years ago how easy it was going to be to keep that promise!  Our love has grown by leaps and bounds over the last ten years and for that, I am thankful!  I know beyond a shadow of a doubt it wasn't because of anything either of us have done in our own strength, but because of the One who brought us together in the first place, and Who helped us grow closer together and to Him as the years have gone by.  What a love story He is writing!  If you will indulge me a bit, I'd love to tell you about it!  :)

About eleven or so years ago, I was praying over my list of qualities I wanted in a future mate.  First and foremost, he had to be a Christian so that he could be the spiritual head of our household.  He had to love me unconditionally.  He had to love children and desire to build a family with me.  And...well, I wanted him to have brown eyes.  ;)  It was the only physical characteristic on the list.  And the whole reason I wanted my husband to have brown eyes?  I wanted my child to have brown eyes.  Well, as I was praying over that list one morning during my quiet time, the brown eyes jumped out at me and it was almost as if God were asking me, "Really?  Is that a deal breaker for you?"  I finally agreed that if he had the other qualities, brown eyes weren't really all that important after all.  I look back on that day now and realize, that was what God was waiting for before revealing my mate to me...He wanted me to come into agreement with Him on what the man He had chosen for me would be like.  David does not have brown eyes...but he fits all the other qualifications to a T!  :)

The funny thing is that pretty much our whole singles group at church saw that God had chosen us for each other before either of us realized it!  In fact, on one of our singles trips to Orlando, they kept "ditching" us so we would have time to spend "alone" together...yet we found out later, they were never all that far away from us.  They could probably all have jobs in the CIA for their surveilance skills!  :)  It was on one of these trips that the veil was removed and David and I saw each other as more than just friends for the first time.  We had been friends in the singles group for years, but never thought of each other as more than a friend until God decided the time was right.  I remeber David and I walking from Universal back to the hotel were our group was staying (boys in one room, girls in another - back in the day when they would allow you to pack in as many people in a room as you wanted).  As we walked, I kept silently praying and asking God, "Is this the one, God?  If it is, thank you!  If not, please let me know!"  I silently repeated that prayer over and over as we walked.  You see, I'd never had a dating relationship that made me feel like being with David felt.  David treated me with such love and respect...like he really enjoyed being with me!  He pulled chairs out for me at restaurants, paid for my meals, and carried my shopping bags for me at the outlet mall.  That may sound silly and old fashioned to some of you, but it just melted my heart in ways that I can't even begin to describe!  :)

This was a trip our singles group took to Orlando (we all had annual passes to Universal) just after Christmas 2001.  I had spent Christmas with my family in Alabama, but met them in Orlando.  On the way back, everyone in the van decided that David needed to ride back with me so I wouldn't have to drive back alone (of course, they were right behind us in the van).  It was on this 4-hour drive that David and I really got to know each other as we shared stories about our family, our dreams, our interests, etc.  We had so much in common and thought so much alike on so many things...it was like God made us for each other!  Imagine that!  ;)

We spent the next several weeks getting to know each other even better (always in a group or in a public place, so as to not be tempted to do anything we shouldn't before marriage).  Then, on March 30, 2002, David asked me to be his wife at our church's fountain right after the Easter worship service.  How very special!  Our friends were gathered around us, taking pictures and blowing bubbles!  David presented me with a boquet of roses...yellow for our friendship, white for the purity of our relationship, and red for love!  :)

It had always been my dream to get married on my maternal grandparents' anniversary...and it just happened to land on a Friday that year!  So, on Friday, September 27, 2002, I walked down the aisle of our church, which was the beginning of the best ten+ years of my life!  :)

Our life has not always been sunshine and unicorns...we've had our struggles along the way.  But, those struggles have served to bring us closer to each other.  One of those struggles was going through infertility and miscarriage.  I had always imagined that once I got married, pregnancy would naturally follow.  But, that was not to be the way for us.  However, God had greater blessings in store for us as a result.  Because of our struggles with conceiving children, we sought out adoption earlier than we probably would have otherwise...and as a result, we have two precious sons!  And...if you remember, the whole reason I wanted a husband with brown eyes is because I wanted my child to have brown eyes...well, Christopher has brown eyes!  God is sooooo good!!!!  :)

Today, I am thankful for a husband who loves me just as I am and also encourages me to be my best!  He loves me even when I don't love myself.  He encourages me when I'm feeling down and discouraged.  He helps me in more ways than I could ever name.  He is my rock, my confidant, my encourager, my friend!  Without him, I would not be who I am today...and I'm thankful!  And I'm thankful that God brought us together!  When you let God write your love story, it is always far more amazing than anything you could ever write yourself!  :)

Chick-fil-A Day - Why I Chose To Attend

Yes, I ate at Chick-fil-A on Wednesday (and on Thursday, for that matter)...but, it's probably not why you think.  It really had nothing to do with same-sex marriage.  If you know me at all, you know I'm pretty much a non-confrontational kind of gal.  It's not that I'm wishy-washy...just that I try to respect ALL people, regardless of whether they think like I do or not.  From what I read in my Bible, that's the kind of guy Jesus was...and my goal is to be more like Him (though I'm a long way off from that goal!).  :)

I usually stay away from such controversial issues as this because in almost every one of them, I have friends on both sides.  I read an article in the midst of the latest Chick-fil-A controversy that stated that Christians are not here to fight the issues.  All too often, we put those issues/causes/whatever-you-want-to-call-them above other people.  But that's not our purpose.  We were given a commandment to love our neighbor.  On Wednesday, I posted on my Facebook page verses in Matthew about this.  Here are the verses:

"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?"  

Jesus replied: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.

This is the first and greatest commandment.

And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself."

~Matthew 22:36-39

If I truly love my neighbor as myself, then I'm not going to cut them down for their sins any more than I'd want someone to cut me down for mine.  Yes, according to the Bible, homosexuality is a sin.  But so is lying, cheating, stealing, greed, and gluttony.  God didn't specify any sins as more heinous than any other with the exception of blasphemy...so who am I to decide that someone else's sin is worse than my own?  We are all sinners and we all need Jesus.  He died to wipe away our sins so that we could spend eternity in Heaven...ALL of us!  No sinner is better than another, just as no sin is better than another.  God made ALL of us, He loves ALL of us...and He commands us to love each!

So...having said all that, why did I choose to participate in the Chick-Fil-A day?  For the simple reason that I wanted to support a business that shares my faith and has, from the very beginning, based all of their decisions and operating procedures on Christian values...both when it was socially acceptable...and even now that it is not.  My chicken sandwich was not against anyone...but instead in support of Christian values...something I do quite regularly anyway.  You see, it wasn't all that out of character for me to go to CFA...just that I stood in a little longer line than usual.  I wasn't making any kind of a political statement.  In fact, had I not been asked, I would have made no statement at all, other than the purchase of a lunch (that I probably would have purchased that day anyway since we were at the mall for my son to get a haircut).  But a lady did ask.  She asked me if I knew what we were supporting.  I simply told her I was supporting a business that stood for Christian values (which, by the way, seems to be a dying breed).

Another reason I chose to support CFA?  Because a friend of mine told me a little known story about Truitt Cathey.  You see, her parents worked for CFA when they were young...in fact, that's where they met.  And when Truitt Cathey got wind of their pending marriage, he offered his own cabin as their honeymoon location.  When he realized that their honemoon was planned for the same weekend as his family's annual gathering at the cabin, he paid for the young couple's honeymoon at a location of their choosing!  My friend was born about 10 months later!  :)  

On a more personal note, when my cousin was dying of colon cancer, several of our family members went to CFA for lunch.  The owner of the local CFA paid for ALL of our lunches (about 20, in total)!  At the time, I thought it was simply a gesture of the individual owner, who also happened to be a friend of the family.  However, today, I learned through CFA's Facebook page that this is not an isolated incident.  A soldier returning from Iraq wanted CFA and his family called ahead because there were going to be about 15 or so of them.  Not only did they set up tables for them, but they decorated them with American flags and other such patriotic fare...and the owner paid for all of their meals as well!  That says a lot for a company and its values in my opinion.  :)

Happy Adoption Day, Christopher!

Eight years ago today, a judge made legal what David and I already felt in our hearts...the little boy we brought home from the hospital four months earlier was indeed our son!  I remember that day like it was yesterday...the drive back up to where our son had been born, sitting in the courthouse waiting our turn, even the warning the judge gave us before signing the paperwork!  He said, "You know, he's really cute right now...but there will come a day when he's not so cute and cuddly.  There will come a day when he will test you.  You can't bring him back when he's a teenager...if I sign this paper, he's yours forever!"  He was right on three things...he's really cute, he has tested us (on many occasions), and he's ours forever!!!  Not once in the eight years that I've had the pleasure of being his mommy have I wanted to take him back.  I fact, we are hoping that when it is time for Jayden's adoption finalization hearing, we'll be able to have the same judge so we can tell him that not only do we not want to bring Christopher back, we came back for another just like him!  :)

We are so blessed to have such a sweet, loving little boy!  As his Aunt Betsy said last night, he is wise beyond his years.  That has become even more evident since welcoming his little brother into our home!  Christopher absolutely LOVES his new role as big brother!  He's always thinking of Jayden and wants to make sure he is included as much as possible.  Every morning when Christopher wakes up, he seeks out Jayden and loves on him before doing anything else.  When we are at the table eating and Jayden (who has already eaten) is in his bouncy seat, Christopher says that Jayden is lonely and brings him close to the table
(right next to his own seat, I might add).

Since we first found out about Jayden, people have asked Christopher if he was going to help out with his baby brother...and Christopher would agree to anything EXCEPT changing the diaper...that's where he drew the line! Saturday night, a friend of our family had asked him the same question he's gotten so many times about changing diapers...and his response was, "NEVER!"  But, for whatever reason, he changed his mind yesterday and actually changed Jayden's diaper...and it wasn't just a wet one, either!  We have the video to prove it!  Daddy did have to help with the wiping part, but Big Brother Christopher did the rest!  I'm so proud of him!

I know it's been awhile since we've done a blog update (3+ weeks, to be exact)...but I've been a little busy (and sleep-deprived) since we got home from the hospital!  ;)  I'll do an update on Jayden soon...but in the meantime, I'll post some pictures of the brothers together!

The picture above was the first time Christopher got to meet Jayden.  On the way over to the hospital, he asked David, "I'm going to get to see my brother in REAL LIFE...not just pictures and videos?!?"  Yesterday, he made the comment that he had to wait a WHOLE DAY to meet Jayden!  He had been so good about waiting patiently at the hotel and hanging out with Daddy while I was at the hospital...but these two statements make it obvious he was as anxious as everyone else to meet his little brother!  :)

We had given Christopher his own camera as a Big Brother gift and he quickly put it to use when he met Jayden for the first time!  :)

The above picture is what Christopher often does first when he wakes up...he finds his little brother and talks lovingly to him for quite some time before moving on to other activities.  And the following pictures are just some great pictures of Christopher with his little brother!  Christopher loves Jayden so much, he's always asking me to take pictures of the two of them together...and of course, I'm happy to oblige!  ;)

If you are on Facebook, you likely have seen some of these pictures already.  But, I felt the were worth repeating!  :)  As much fun as it is to have a new baby in the house...it's every bit as much fun to know that for the last 8 years, 4 months, and 3 days, I've had the joy and the privilege of being Christopher's mommy!  He amazes me every day with his sweet spirit, his creativity, his tender compassionate heart, his enthusiasm, his stamina, his everything!  And because of that, I can't end this post without a special thanks to his birth mom...because without her, none of this would have been possible!  Because she made a decision to carry not one, but two little boys to full term and chose us to adopt both of them, I am one blessed woman today!

Happy Adoption Day, Christopher!  I love you with all my heart!!!!